Motivate Me.

Dear Self,

Own this place you are in now, the energy is powerful. Things can never be as they were, only as they are now. You have a renewed solidity in yourself. From now on, never be afraid to fall, live, or love.

Don’t waste yourself on someone who isn’t willing to put in the same amount of effort as you. Stop worrying about the men who don’t want to be with you but don’t want you to be with anyone else. Be done with those who confuse and complicate and play games. Life is sweet and simple, keep it that way.

Play and have fun. Let things flow. Life will fall into place as it should without you even trying. At some point, there will be a man (or several) who will not try to possess you, or make you into something you are not. He will appreciate you for how lovely you are and remind you of it all the time. He will support you and push you to be all that you can be. He will be his own person and love you because you are your own, but you’ve decided to be with him. He will give you space to grow and move because he’ll realize that the beauty of you is that you are transient. He may not understand everything about you, but he will be able to respect you and the things that are important to you.

Do what is right for you. It’s okay to be selfish sometimes. Speak your truth. Don’t feel that you need to be involved with someone or friends with someone just because they want to be with you.

Have peace with the path you have chosen, because throughout it all you’ve lived and loved and experienced! You’ve followed your heart. There are no “if only”s or “should have”s because you have been only as you could be at that moment and made the only decisions that you could have made while still being yourself.

You have let a select, special few see your soul, and not expected anything in return. You have given and received and remained true to yourself, not letting others drain or shape you.

Surround yourself with your true friends, who love and accept you as you are and make it as simple as “I love you and I want to spend as much time with you as possible”. These are the ones that you can see 40 years down the road still being your soul mates. The friendships that distance, or marriage, or experiences don’t change, they are always with you.

Don’t forget that you are unique, beautiful, compassionate. You glow, and people want to be around you because you figured out the secret to a life of happiness… being happy with yourself.

You never need to make excuses for how you feel or what you want to do. You do what you want, you always have.

Spend time with family and friends, the people you love. You don’t have much time to spend with the people you love, don’t waste time on the people you don’t, the “obligations”.

Savor all these beautiful experiences and always appreciate where you are, right now.

Sincerely,
Senorita